JAYANTONIO's blog
God cannot reach everywhere...So he created Mothers on the Earth!!!

HOW WILL PEOPLE REMEMBER YOU WHEN YOU ARE GONE?
THINK WHAT MEMORIES ARE YOU GOING TO LEAVE BEHIND?
THERE WILL BE NO MORE SURPRISES, NO MINUTES, HOURS OR DAYS…
ALL THE THINGS YOU COLLECTED, WHETHER TREASURED OR FORGOTTEN, WILL PASS TO SOMEONE ELSE………..
YOUR WEALTH, FAME AND TEMPORAL POWER WILL SHRIVEL TO IRRELEVANCE,
IT WILL NOT MATTER WHAT YOU OWNED OR WHAT YOU WERE OWED…….
YOUR GRUDGES, RESENTMENTS , FRUSTRATIONS AND JEALOUSIES WILL FINALLY DISAPPEAR.
SO, TOO, YOUR HOPES , AMBITIONS, PLANS AND TO-DO LISTS WILL EXPIRE……
THE WINS AND LOSSES THAT ONCE SEEMED IMPORTANT WILL FADE AWAY…
IT WON’T MATTER WHERE YOU CAME FROM,
OR ON WHAT SIDE OF THE TRACKS YOU LIVED, AT THE END…….
IT WON’T MATTER WHETHER YOU WERE BEAUTIFUL OR BRILLIANT
EVEN YOUR GENDER AND SKIN COLOR WILL BE IRRELEVANT……………..
SO WHAT WILL MATTER? HOW WILL THE VALUE OF YOUR DAYS BE MEASURED?
WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT WHAT YOU BOUGHT……..BUT WHAT YOU BUILT……..
NOT WHAT YOU GOT……….BUT WHAT YOU GAVE…………..
WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT YOUR SUCCESS, BUT YOUR SIGNIFICANCE……..
WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT WHAT YOU LEARNED, BUT WHAT YOU TAUGHT…….
WHAT WILL MATTER IS EVERY ACT OF INTEGRITY , COMPASSION OR SACRIFICE THAT ENRICHED,
EMPOWERED OR ENCOURAGED OTHERS TO EMULATE YOUR EXAMPLE
WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT YOUR COMPETENCE, BUT YOUR CHARACTER
WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU KNEW, BUT HOW MANY WILL FEEL A
LASTING LOSS, WHEN YOU’RE GONE..
WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT YOUR MEMORIES, BUT THE MEMORIES THAT LIVE IN THOSE WHO LOVED YOU…..
WHAT WILL MATTER IS HOW LONG YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED, BY WHOM AND FOR WHAT……..
LIVING A LIFE THAT MATTERS DOESN’T HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT
IT IS NOT A MATTER OF CIRCUMSTANCE BUT OF CHOICE………….
LIVE A LIFE THAT MATTERS……………….
READY OR NOT, SOME DAY IT WILL ALL COME TO AN END…………
Best Age is Encourage,
Best Mile is Smile,
Best Stand is Understand,
Best End is Friend,
Best Day is Today,
Have A Great Day.

On the day when you see us Old , Weak and Weary…………..Have patience and do try to understand us…
If we get dirty when eating…..and….If we cannot dress on our own……….Please bear with us and remember the times when we spent feeding you and dressing you up..
If, when we speak to you, we repeat the same things over and over again……….do not interrupt us ………..listen to us……… When you were small, we had to read to you the same story a thousand and one times until you went to sleep.
When we do not want to have a shower, neither shame us nor scold us……… Remember when we had to chase you with your thousand excuses to get you to the shower?
When you see our ignorance of new technologies…help us navigate our way through these world wide webs………….We taught you how to do so many things……To eat the right foods, to dress appropriately, To fight for your rights………….
When at some moments we loose the memory or the thread of our conversation………..let us have the necessary time to remember………..and if we cannot, do not become nervous………..As the most important thing is not our conversation but simply to be with you and to have you listening to us………
When our tired legs give way and do not allow us to walk without a cane………..If ever we do not feel like eating, do not force us. We know well when we need to and when not to eat……..Lend us your helping hand the same way we did when you tried your first faltering steps………
And when some day when we say to you that we don’t want to live anymore, that we want to die………..Do not get angry……For one day you will understand…………..Try to appreciate that our age is not just lived but survived……………..
Someday you will realize that despite our mistakes………….We always wanted the best for you……And we tried to prepare the way for you………….You must not feel sad, angry nor ashamed for having us near you……Instead try to understand us and help us like we did when you were young……..
Help us to walk ….Help us to live the rest of our life with Love and Dignity…………
We will pay you with a smile and by the immense love we have always had for you in our hearts…………
WE LOVE YOU CHILD……….FROM……….MOM & DAD…………..
LOVE THE PARENTS……………………ONE DAY YOU WILL ALSO BECOME ONE OF THEM…………….

I wish for you roses
wish for you love
I wish for your blessings
In abundance from above.
I wish for you happiness
Only friendship can bring
I wish for you the kind of day
That makes your heart sing.
I wish for you all the beautiful things
That makes your day so bright
And a joyful feeling in your heart
Morning, noon and night.
I send this special greeting
In a very friendly way
So you will know that
someone is thinking of you today.
" Real Love is a permanently self
~ enlarging experience.~
" Happiness is not something you find,
It is something you create.
LIFE IS NO WHERE ..can be read as.. LIFE IS NOW HERE.

THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT, ONCE GONE, NEVER COME BACK…
TIME, WORDS AND OPPORTUNITY
THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT MAY NEVER BE LOST….
PEACE, HOPE AND HONESTY.
THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT ARE MOST VALUABLE………
LOVE, SELF-CONFIDENCE AND FRIENDS.
THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT ARE NEVER CERTAIN……..
DREAMS, SUCCESS AND FORTUNE.
THREE THINGS THAT MAKE A MAN / WOMAN
HARDWORK , SINCERITY AND COMMITMENT.
THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT CAN DESTROY A MAN / WOMAN
PREJUDICE, PRIDE AND ANGER.
THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT, ONCE LOST, HARD TO BUILD-UP……
RESPECT, TRUST AND FRIENDS.
THREE THINGS IN LIFE THAT NEVER FAIL…..
TRUE LOVE, DETERMINATION AND BELIEF.
